Some things your masseuse might not say out loud – but will definitely appreciate.
If you're planning your first erotic massage, you might be wondering what’s expected.
What’s allowed? What’s not? And how should you behave?
Whether you're feeling slightly nervous or just want to be respectful, the following tips will help you enjoy the experience to the fullest — while showing genuine appreciation for your masseuse and the space you're entering.
Don't Touch the Masseuse
It might feel like a natural instinct to reach out to the person giving you so much pleasure.
But during a massage, that's not appropriate. This interaction is designed to go from her to you — not the other way around.
Her role is to take care of you.
Your role is to relax, receive, and enjoy.
Don't Be a Director
It’s perfectly fine to say what feels good, or to mention how you're doing. But this isn’t a moment for issuing orders.
Your masseuse knows what she’s doing. If you constantly try to control the session, it can become distracting — even frustrating.
Have a conversation, not a monologue. And if you're naturally talkative, feel free to mention that upfront.
Otherwise, try to surrender to the rhythm of the moment.
Popcorn Belongs in the Cinema
Yes, people really do this.
Interrupting a massage to eat something is deeply disrespectful. You’re not at a movie theater.
Think of this experience as a sensual ritual — a moment of connection, not consumption.
Just like your masseuse prepares for you, you should prepare for her.
Strong Perfume? Please, No.
Good hygiene is expected. A light scent is fine.
But avoid using strong perfumes or colognes right before the session. Your masseuse will likely use essential oils, which have distinct therapeutic aromas — mixing them with heavy perfume can be overwhelming.
Stay clean and fresh, but keep it simple.
Don't Be Rude — Ever
It should go without saying, but let’s say it anyway: Your masseuse is not an object. She’s a trained professional.
Don’t speak to her inappropriately.
If something doesn’t feel right, share it respectfully — or next time, simply choose another massage or masseuse.
This experience is defined by mutual respect.
And that’s where real erotic fulfillment begins — in trust, not in pressure.
Final Thought?
Visiting an erotic massage salon is about much more than physical pleasure. It’s a ritual.
It’s about presence, energy, respect, and surrender.
Approach it with openness and courtesy — and you may just receive more than you ever expected.
